160 Never Have I Ever Questions for Friends

About the Friends deck

Friendship has its own category of small crimes, and this deck is about all of them. The jumper borrowed and never returned. The money lent and quietly written off. The plans made enthusiastically and cancelled with relief.

The questions get more interesting as they go. Early on it is about being late and blaming traffic. Later it is about the smaller group chat, about being jealous of a friend's other friends, about growing out of a friendship and staying in it out of history alone. There is a run of questions about being the one who organises everything, and a matching run about being the one who never does.

It finishes somewhere kinder — driving a long way for someone, staying on a call until they felt better, actually saying out loud that you are proud of them. Groups who have known each other for years get the most out of this deck, because half the questions will produce a specific name before anyone has finished reading the card.

All 160 never have i ever questions for friends

Never have I ever kept a friend waiting and blamed traffic.

Never have I ever been consistently the late one in a group.

Never have I ever arrived on time and been shocked to be first.

Never have I ever lied about already leaving the house.

Never have I ever said five minutes when I had not started getting ready.

Never have I ever watched a friend get ready for two hours.

Never have I ever told a friend an outfit was fine when it was not.

Never have I ever told a friend the truth about an outfit and regretted it.

Never have I ever borrowed clothes and never given them back.

Never have I ever lent something and been too awkward to ask for it.

Never have I ever kept a friend's book for over a year.

Never have I ever returned something in worse condition and said nothing.

Never have I ever broken a friend's thing and replaced it quietly.

Never have I ever eaten a friend's food without asking.

Never have I ever finished something in a friend's fridge.

Never have I ever ordered extra because a friend was paying.

Never have I ever forgotten my wallet conveniently.

Never have I ever been short on a split bill every time.

Never have I ever paid more than my share and said nothing.

Never have I ever kept a mental tally of who owes what.

Never have I ever chased a friend for money for months.

Never have I ever given up on money a friend owed me.

Never have I ever lent money and never mentioned it again.

Never have I ever covered for a friend with their parents.

Never have I ever covered for a friend at work.

Never have I ever lied to protect a friend.

Never have I ever lied for a friend and been caught.

Never have I ever been someone's alibi.

Never have I ever had a friend as my emergency call.

Never have I ever called a friend to get me out of something.

Never have I ever answered an escape call badly.

Never have I ever had a code word with a friend.

Never have I ever communicated entirely by eye contact.

Never have I ever had a whole conversation across a room.

Never have I ever laughed at something only we understand.

Never have I ever quoted something nobody else finds funny.

Never have I ever had an inside joke that lasted years.

Never have I ever explained an inside joke and killed it.

Never have I ever laughed at a friend falling before helping.

Never have I ever filmed a friend instead of helping.

Never have I ever sent a friend an unflattering photo of themselves.

Never have I ever kept an awful photo of a friend for leverage.

Never have I ever posted a photo where I look good and they do not.

Never have I ever been posted in a photo I hated.

Never have I ever agreed to delete something and kept it.

Never have I ever screenshotted a friend's message to another friend.

Never have I ever discussed a friend with another friend.

Never have I ever defended a friend who was clearly wrong.

Never have I ever told a friend they were wrong.

Never have I ever avoided telling a friend something difficult.

Never have I ever waited too long to say something important.

Never have I ever given advice I did not follow myself.

Never have I ever asked for advice I had no intention of taking.

Never have I ever asked several friends until one agreed with me.

Never have I ever pretended to consider advice.

Never have I ever told a friend what they wanted to hear.

Never have I ever been honest and made things worse.

Never have I ever apologised first to end a silence.

Never have I ever held a grudge far too long.

Never have I ever forgiven something I said I never would.

Never have I ever fallen out over something tiny.

Never have I ever forgotten what a fight was even about.

Never have I ever reconnected after years apart.

Never have I ever messaged an old friend out of nowhere.

Never have I ever meant to reply and left it for weeks.

Never have I ever replied a month late and pretended it was recent.

Never have I ever left a message on read by accident.

Never have I ever ignored a group chat for days.

Never have I ever muted a group chat permanently.

Never have I ever been the one who organises everything.

Never have I ever been the one who never organises anything.

Never have I ever suggested plans and then hoped they fell through.

Never have I ever been relieved when plans were cancelled.

Never have I ever cancelled and felt nothing but joy.

Never have I ever cancelled and immediately regretted it.

Never have I ever turned up to something I had cancelled.

Never have I ever made a group chat for one event.

Never have I ever been in a group chat that never dies.

Never have I ever named a group chat something ridiculous.

Never have I ever changed a group chat name to annoy people.

Never have I ever added someone to a chat they should not be in.

Never have I ever removed someone from a chat.

Never have I ever been removed and never told why.

Never have I ever created a second chat without one person.

Never have I ever been in the smaller chat.

Never have I ever found out about a smaller chat.

Never have I ever gone on holiday with friends and survived it.

Never have I ever shared a room with a friend who snores.

Never have I ever argued about a thermostat on a trip.

Never have I ever argued about a schedule on holiday.

Never have I ever been the one with the plan.

Never have I ever been the one with no plan at all.

Never have I ever got lost with friends and enjoyed it.

Never have I ever followed a friend's directions into nowhere.

Never have I ever trusted a friend's restaurant recommendation blindly.

Never have I ever eaten somewhere terrible and stayed polite.

Never have I ever introduced friends who became closer than us.

Never have I ever been left out of a friendship I started.

Never have I ever been jealous of a friend's other friends.

Never have I ever felt replaced.

Never have I ever replaced someone without meaning to.

Never have I ever had a friend group change completely.

Never have I ever grown out of a friendship.

Never have I ever stayed friends out of history alone.

Never have I ever met up and had nothing to say.

Never have I ever met up after years and felt no gap at all.

Never have I ever cried in front of a friend.

Never have I ever been the shoulder for someone at 3am.

Never have I ever stayed on a call until a friend felt better.

Never have I ever driven a long way for a friend.

Never have I ever dropped everything for someone.

Never have I ever had someone drop everything for me.

Never have I ever been the last to know something.

Never have I ever been the first to know something.

Never have I ever kept news to myself for someone else.

Never have I ever celebrated a friend's news louder than my own.

Never have I ever felt jealous of a friend's success.

Never have I ever been genuinely happy for someone and said so.

Never have I ever told a friend I was proud of them.

Never have I ever struggled to say something sincere.

Never have I ever made a joke to avoid being serious.

Never have I ever said it through a text because it was easier.

Never have I ever written something I never sent to a friend.

Never have I ever remembered a friend's birthday at 11pm.

Never have I ever sent a birthday message a day late.

Never have I ever forgotten a birthday entirely.

Never have I ever bought a last minute present at a petrol station.

Never have I ever regifted to a friend.

Never have I ever given a joke present that was not funny.

Never have I ever given a present I wanted for myself.

Never have I ever kept a friend's gift out of guilt.

Never have I ever made a friend a playlist.

Never have I ever made a friend a scrapbook.

Never have I ever kept a ticket from a night out with friends.

Never have I ever kept a photo on a fridge for years.

Never have I ever have a friend who has known me too long.

Never have I ever have a friend who knows a story I deny.

Never have I ever been threatened with an old story.

Never have I ever told a friend's story as my own.

Never have I ever been called out for telling it wrong.

Never have I ever exaggerated a story with friends present.

Never have I ever agreed with an exaggeration to be kind.

Never have I ever let a friend take credit for something.

Never have I ever taken credit for a friend's idea.

Never have I ever copied a friend's decision entirely.

Never have I ever followed a friend into something I did not want.

Never have I ever talked a friend out of a bad idea.

Never have I ever failed to talk a friend out of it.

Never have I ever said I told you so.

Never have I ever resisted saying I told you so.

Never have I ever picked up a friend at an unreasonable hour.

Never have I ever been picked up at an unreasonable hour.

Never have I ever shared a bed with a friend on a floor.

Never have I ever argued about who gets the sofa.

Never have I ever fought over a takeaway order.

Never have I ever agreed to a shared order and hated my part.

Never have I ever eaten off a friend's plate.

Never have I ever had food taken off my plate.

Never have I ever made a friend try something they hated.

Never have I ever tried something only because a friend dared me.

Frequently asked questions

Is this better for old friends or new ones?

Old friends. Many questions assume years of shared history. For a newer group, try the Icebreaker deck instead.

Could these questions cause an argument?

A few are pointed. Agree that anyone can pass, and skip a card rather than push someone to answer it.

How many people can play?

Any number, though three to eight works best so everyone gets a chance to explain their answers.

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