126 Long Distance Never Have I Ever Questions

About the Long Distance deck

Written for two people in different cities, which changes what the game is for. Nobody is counting fingers here. You are reading a card, answering honestly, and then talking about it for twenty minutes.

The questions come from the actual mechanics of distance: getting a time difference wrong and missing a call, adding a second time zone to your phone, knowing the weather somewhere you do not live, following a flight you are not on. There is a whole run about the goodbye — crying at an airport, crying after one, holding it together until they walked away, driving home in silence.

It also covers the small absurd things nobody admits to. Leaving a call on to sleep. Replaying a voice note. Keeping a screenshot of a call timer. Feeling jealous of couples doing something completely ordinary together.

The last section is about the future conversation every long distance couple has and avoids in equal measure, and it ends on the day the counting stops.

All 126 long distance never have i ever questions

Never have I ever fallen asleep on a video call.

Never have I ever left a call running while we both did nothing.

Never have I ever watched the same film at the same time apart.

Never have I ever counted down to press play together.

Never have I ever paused for someone and lost the moment.

Never have I ever argued about a time zone.

Never have I ever got a time difference wrong and missed a call.

Never have I ever woken up at an unreasonable hour for a call.

Never have I ever stayed up until sunrise talking.

Never have I ever set an alarm to say good morning.

Never have I ever sent a good night message to someone waking up.

Never have I ever calculated a time difference badly.

Never have I ever checked a clock in another city constantly.

Never have I ever added a second time zone to my phone.

Never have I ever known the weather somewhere I do not live.

Never have I ever followed a flight I was not on.

Never have I ever checked flight prices far too often.

Never have I ever kept a countdown on my phone.

Never have I ever crossed days off a calendar.

Never have I ever counted sleeps instead of days.

Never have I ever booked a trip I could not really afford.

Never have I ever flown somewhere for a weekend.

Never have I ever taken an overnight journey to save money.

Never have I ever changed plans around one visit.

Never have I ever used all my holiday days for one person.

Never have I ever explained my relationship to people who did not get it.

Never have I ever been asked if it is even real.

Never have I ever been told it would never work.

Never have I ever defended it to family.

Never have I ever been asked when we would finally live near each other.

Never have I ever had no good answer to that question.

Never have I ever made a plan with no dates in it.

Never have I ever talked about a future city.

Never have I ever looked at flats in a place I do not live.

Never have I ever applied for a job in another city.

Never have I ever considered moving for someone.

Never have I ever moved for someone.

Never have I ever asked someone to move for me.

Never have I ever felt guilty about asking.

Never have I ever kept a hoodie that smells like someone.

Never have I ever refused to wash something for that reason.

Never have I ever slept with a phone on the pillow.

Never have I ever left a call on to sleep.

Never have I ever talked until one of us fell asleep.

Never have I ever listened to someone breathing on a call.

Never have I ever kept a voice note to replay.

Never have I ever replayed the same voice note many times.

Never have I ever saved a screenshot of a call timer.

Never have I ever kept a photo of a screen.

Never have I ever taken a screenshot mid video call.

Never have I ever made a photo album of a visit.

Never have I ever looked at old photos when missing someone.

Never have I ever cried at an airport.

Never have I ever cried after an airport.

Never have I ever held it together until they walked away.

Never have I ever watched someone go through security.

Never have I ever waited until a plane took off.

Never have I ever driven home from an airport in silence.

Never have I ever put a song on repeat on the way back.

Never have I ever had a song that belongs to one goodbye.

Never have I ever avoided a song for months.

Never have I ever gone quiet for a day after a goodbye.

Never have I ever said I am fine when I was not.

Never have I ever pretended a goodbye was easier than it was.

Never have I ever promised the next one would be sooner.

Never have I ever broken that promise.

Never have I ever cancelled a visit for money.

Never have I ever cancelled a visit for work.

Never have I ever felt awful cancelling.

Never have I ever been cancelled on and said it was fine.

Never have I ever waited at an arrivals gate with flowers.

Never have I ever held a sign as a joke.

Never have I ever planned an entire visit in advance.

Never have I ever wasted a whole visit doing nothing.

Never have I ever preferred doing nothing together.

Never have I ever argued during a short visit.

Never have I ever regretted arguing when time was short.

Never have I ever avoided an argument because time was short.

Never have I ever saved a difficult conversation for in person.

Never have I ever had a difficult conversation over text anyway.

Never have I ever misread a message tone completely.

Never have I ever assumed the worst from a short reply.

Never have I ever panicked about a delayed reply.

Never have I ever checked when someone was last online.

Never have I ever regretted checking.

Never have I ever told myself not to read into it.

Never have I ever read into it anyway.

Never have I ever felt jealous of people who see them daily.

Never have I ever felt jealous of an ordinary evening together.

Never have I ever envied couples doing boring things.

Never have I ever missed something small more than something big.

Never have I ever missed the sound of someone in another room.

Never have I ever talked to an empty room out of habit.

Never have I ever gone to send a photo and stopped.

Never have I ever sent something knowing they were asleep.

Never have I ever woken up to a wall of messages.

Never have I ever replied to yesterday's message today.

Never have I ever had a whole conversation across two days.

Never have I ever lost a conversation to bad signal.

Never have I ever blamed the wifi for everything.

Never have I ever frozen mid sentence many times.

Never have I ever repeated myself three times on a call.

Never have I ever given up and switched to text.

Never have I ever had a call drop during something important.

Never have I ever ordered food to someone far away.

Never have I ever sent a delivery as a surprise.

Never have I ever posted a letter.

Never have I ever kept every letter.

Never have I ever sent something in the post that took weeks.

Never have I ever tracked a parcel obsessively.

Never have I ever made a playlist for someone.

Never have I ever shared a playlist we both add to.

Never have I ever read the same book at the same time.

Never have I ever started a series and waited to watch together.

Never have I ever cheated and watched ahead.

Never have I ever confessed to watching ahead.

Never have I ever played a game together online.

Never have I ever kept a streak going for months.

Never have I ever felt silly about how much a streak mattered.

Never have I ever made a shared album.

Never have I ever made a shared note of plans.

Never have I ever written a list of things to do together.

Never have I ever crossed something off that list.

Never have I ever finally been in the same city.

Never have I ever stopped counting days.

Never have I ever told someone it was worth it.

Frequently asked questions

How do you play this over a video call?

One person shares their screen, or you both open the same deck. Take turns reading a card and answering — the conversation afterwards is the point.

Is this only for romantic partners?

Mostly, though friends separated by distance recognise a lot of it. The Friends deck works better for non-romantic distance.

Is it depressing?

Some questions are honest about how hard distance is, but the deck ends on the good part. Skip any card that lands badly.

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